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If ever there is a time we can’t be together, keep me in your heart, I’ll stay there forever. —Winnie the Pooh Did you know that imagination and creativity are developed in a child when they have time alone? Did you know the most profound spiritual growth happens when we are by ourselves? Did you [...]

Love is but the discovery of ourselves in another, and delight in the recognition. —Alexander Smith One never consciously seeks out one’s soul mate…The soul mate finds you. He or she merely appears in one’s life when the time and circumstance come. —Jaime T. Lichauco Soul Mates can be defined in many different ways. In [...]

Love is what we were born with. Fear is what we learned. —Marianne Williamson I don’t understand why Cupid was chosen to represent Valentine’s Day. When I think about romance, the last thing on my mind is a short, chubby toddler coming at me with a weapon. —Jay Leno  Some of you might find this [...]

You don’t develop courage by being happy in your relationship every day. You develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity. – Epicurus William, do you have the courage to Love? —Illustration by Koren, 1977 In the 1977 cartoon Illustration by Koren that I believed appeared in The New Yorker we see two monsters, [...]

Life is an adventure. —James L. Morrell I was blessed with a father who gave me one of the greatest gifts of my life, the gift of adventure! No matter what was happening, my father would always be quick to point out that it was merely just part of the adventure. Like the time when [...]

Capability, yes…but where could warp drive take us, except away from here? —Anji, Star Trek: Insurrection Why are we in such a hurry when it comes to Love? Why would we, by choice or design, take ourselves out of any moment of Love? Have you ever had the experience of a perfect moment when time [...]

The pure and simple truth is rarely pure and never simple. —Oscar Wilde We all have something to say. We all have feelings about everything that happens in our relationship. We all request that our partners be truthful and honest because most of us have had the rather painful experience of being hurt by lies [...]

When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be. —Lao Tzu I have to be honest, fall is my favorite time of year. I love the fall. It’s a time of renewal for me. I have always looked at fall as a time to let go. Perhaps since I grew [...]

Have a go. Anybody can do it. —Allen Parker Are you ready to have some fun? This month I am going to talk about an aspect of relationships that really jazzes me, collaboration! It is creative, expansive, educating, unifying, and a constant trip into deeper understanding. I will joyously talk about four aspects of collaboration: [...]

Love is keeping your room clean. —Mr. Fred Rogers      I mentioned to my client, Stacy, that I intended to use a quote from Mr. Rogers to open my article this month. She enquired, “Which quote could you possibly use that would have anything to do with adult Love?” “Love is keeping your room clean,” [...]